very good advice!!
but the worst bit is that whilst i know it is important, we very rarely if ever eat dinner together!
i usually start making dinner as soon as i get home from picking my son up from school. i like to get it done straight away so that i can have time to clean up after dinner, then get the 2 boys bathed and ready for bed so the rest of the night is hassle free! And they are usually really hungry after school -and this stops them from turning feral!
So we usually eat around 5/5.30pm and my partner is never usually home before 6.30pm!
So there goes that idea!

but i do like the cuppa idea for after the kids have gone to bed - and we have actually started doing this, with a hot chocolate! It is a great thing to do.
We have also decided we are going to start 'date night' which means once a month (at the least) we are to plan something which the other partner would like to do (to encourage taking an interest in each others lives). And whoever is doing the planning needs to organise the babysitter too! So that means that if i am planning to take Gav out it has to be to somewhere he would love to go - and he has to do the same for me when it's his turn to plan!!
Because ordinarily our interests are sooooo different that we just do things separately.
But this idea actually has us get interested in each other again, and go out of our way for each other!! very romantic!!!
